How to Host a Home Hen Do in 4 Simple Steps
Planning a home hen do/Bachelorette is a fantastic way to celebrate the bride-to-be with an intimate and personal touch. As someone currently getting married and going with this exact style, let me guide you!
Whether you're looking to save money or simply want to create a cozy, relaxed atmosphere, hosting a hen do at home can be just as fun and memorable as going out.
In this guide, we'll walk you through everything you need to know to plan a perfect home hen do.
1. Setting the Scene
Hen Do Theme Ideas
Start by choosing a theme that reflects the bride's personality. A theme can tie the entire hen do together and make it easier to plan decorations, activities, and even the menu.
Popular themes for a home hen do include slumber parties filled with wine, pizza and games, a spa night for the stressed bride, a vintage tea party which you can do with or without champagne (did someone say high tea?)
Or a glamorous movie night. Whatever you choose, make sure it aligns with what the bride enjoys.
Example: For a spa-themed hen do, you can create a relaxing atmosphere with aromatherapy candles, soft robes, and calming music. Make it match the theme.
Decorate the Space
Once you have a theme, it's time to decorate. Since you're hosting at home, think about how you can transform the space to match your theme.
Balloons, banners, and fairy lights can create a festive atmosphere. Personal touches, like photos of the bride and her friends, can make the space feel even more special.
For the classic no theme themed hen do, I’d recommend these decorative bits. They also go well with any of those classic themes we mentioned above.
Bachelorette Party Decorations
Bachelorette Decoration Kit
Bachelorette Balloons
Funny Bachelorette Banner
Yet another Funny Bachelorette Banner
Bride To Be Embroidered Veil
12 Pack- Bachelorette Party Bride To Be Sashes
Plan the Invitations
Even though you’re hosting a small, intimate home hen do, sending out invitations can make the event feel official and exciting.
They also make the perfect keepsake. You can opt for digital invites or create personalized paper invitations that match your theme.
2. Planning the Activities
Fun Games and Activities
Hen dos are all about fun and laughter, so plan activities that everyone will enjoy.
Classic hen do games like "Mr & Mrs," "Never Have I Ever," and a bridal quiz can be great icebreakers. You could also plan a DIY activity, like making personalized cocktail glasses or a memory book for the bride.
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Pampering the Bride
If the bride is someone who loves to relax and unwind, consider incorporating a pampering session into the hen do. You can create a mini spa at home with facials, manicures, and massages.
Set up different stations for each treatment, and don’t forget the soothing background music and herbal teas.
Create Lasting Memories
Capture the fun moments with photos or a video montage. Set up a DIY photo booth with props related to your theme, and encourage everyone to take lots of pictures.
You can also create a scrapbook or guestbook where everyone can leave messages and photos for the bride to cherish.
3. Planning the Menu
Delicious Finger Foods
When hosting a home hen do, finger foods and canapés are always a hit. You can prepare a variety of small bites that guests can enjoy throughout the evening.
Think about including a mix of sweet and savory options, like mini quiches, cheese platters, cupcakes, and chocolate-covered strawberries.
Signature Drinks
No hen do is complete without some delicious drinks. Create a signature cocktail that ties in with your theme, or set up a DIY cocktail bar where guests can mix their own drinks.
Be sure to offer non-alcoholic options as well, like mocktails or infused water.
The Knot has some fantastic food and drink ideas.
As always, Smartblend is also the go to place for cocktail ideas, I recommend this endless prosecco cocktail idea. Yeah, technically it’s for couples but absolutely it will work.
And always make sure you have Cosmos for any hen do.
Dessert Station
End the night on a sweet note with a dessert station. You can offer a selection of cakes, cookies, and candies that match the theme.
A cupcake tower or a candy buffet can be a fun and visually appealing addition to the party.
The website Brides has some great ideas and recipes for bachelorette desserts I recommend.
4. Sending Guests Home with a Smile
Thoughtful Party Favors
Party favors are a lovely way to thank your guests for coming.
Consider giving out small, thoughtful gifts that tie in with your theme, such as personalized candles, mini bottles of champagne, or custom-made tote bags.
Personally. Nothing beats these pink heart glasses in my opinion. Also in the UK here.
Thank You Notes
A simple thank you note can go a long way in showing your appreciation. Handwrite a short message to each guest and include it with the party favor.
This personal touch will leave a lasting impression and make your guests feel valued.
Conclusion
Hosting a home hen do is a wonderful way to celebrate the bride-to-be in a cozy and intimate setting.
By choosing a theme, planning fun activities, and offering delicious food and drinks, you can create a memorable and enjoyable experience for everyone involved.
Don’t forget to add personal touches and thoughtful details to make the day extra special.
Have you hosted a home hen do before, or are you planning one soon? Share your ideas and experiences in the comments below – we’d love to hear from you!
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